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Dylan Moore's avatar

THIS IS AMAZING YOU ARE A GENIUS. i’m always amazed at how great of a storyteller you are gwyn, and what a perfect ending. this is immaculate💋🙌

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DD Bignell's avatar

THANK YOU MY ANGEL <3333 :,)

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maya s's avatar

Amazing. Loved this one.

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DD Bignell's avatar

ahhhh thank u!!

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Elise Dufour's avatar

I loved this <3 I want to read more about this girl and her dating adventures!

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DD Bignell's avatar

:') thank youuuuuu

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Chandan Kapoor's avatar

Really well written 👏 it’s insightful while simply put. I wonder if we can go on a date and talk about these dates and people openly and honestly. I messaged you after we met but never heard back, totally understand it was late and dark on my way back home when we met. Hope you get back to me… insta is @chankapoor

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DD Bignell's avatar

Thanks for reading! :) I don’t want to go on a date with you

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Chandan Kapoor's avatar

Hope you remember who this is. No worries if you don’t want to go on a date. I’m curious about you, would like to pick your brain and talk about your experiences, people, life. As friends or two people in a philosophy or book club. Does that work?

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DD Bignell's avatar

No. Idk how else to say this.

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Chandan Kapoor's avatar

That’s ok. The No for a date was already taken. I was asking to meet as friends to bounce ideas and thoughts on the topics you write about.

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DD Bignell's avatar

NO. Like NO TO ALL OF IT. NO. NO. NO. NO. clear? And in case this seems like an extreme response to your pushiness let’s recap : you stopped me in the middle of the night when I was walking home alone to tell me that you’d been watching me for weeks and decided that moment was the perfect time to talk to me, and I gave you my Instagram in case you retaliated if I rejected you — which I completely regret now. Please leave me alone. The irony of my needing to explain this in the comment thread of this post should not be lost on you.

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Chandan Kapoor's avatar

Yea it’s an extreme reaction and I’m not going to stoop down to your energy. I’ll try and be as clear and objective as possible.

Let’s recap : I ran into you and yea it was late at night and I apologized straight away mentioning that sorry I know it was late.

I never was and never said that I had been watching you. This is where you make it sound creepy and paint a completely ugly picture of the situation and me.

My words were I live closeby too and I know it’s an odd time so I’m sorry and I’m just saying hello.

You gave me your insta coz you were worried I retaliated? That’s another cherry on top of your built up ugly image of the situation and me.

No need to regret it, just say it and unfollow me or ask me to unfollow you.

As per this trail I have asked you once to go on a date only because I found your experiences and definition of dating and men to be very interesting to say the least. Then just to hang as a friend or acquaintance, don’t forget your no for dating which was positively taken and I never asked again.

Just as you painted the previous picture messaging on the comment thread is another add on from you. Well done!

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DD Bignell's avatar

THANK YOUUUU 🖤🖤🖤 this is such high praise coming from you 🥲

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